“I thought men were using me. It turns out that I was using them all along”

I was using men all along

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“I thought men were using me. It turns out that I was using them all along”

By Anna Wolfe

9 months ago

7 min read

Dating a series of problematic men, Anna Wolfe often found herself focusing on their flaws. While they were no saints, she writes here about how looking at her part in it all – and getting sober – helped her gain peace.


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