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Relationships
“I married a man I thought I could change – this is why the idea of ‘doer-upper’ relationships is so damaging”
5 months ago
7 min read
Romcoms have been peddling the idea that it’s both possible and necessary to change a partner for decades – but what do the real women who’ve fallen into this controversial relationship dynamic really think? And how does an expert relationships therapist advise we handle the urge to try to ‘mould’ someone?
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