Are you on the dating scene this festive season? Are you looking for a partner who will last longer than cuffing season? Well, listen up, because this is a trend you’ll want to know about.

We’ve had snow-storming and Marleying, and now you need to get ready for gingerbreading. Tina Wilson, relationship expert and founder of the Wingman dating app, says this is one of the top Christmassy dating fads we should be keeping in mind.

And no, it’s not about baked goods…

Think of it as an extremely festive take on cuffing season. 

Wilson explains: “The aim is to embrace the season, the festivities and the winter glory it brings to the maximum. From craving the warmth of mulled wine by an open fire to having fun ice-skating and taking long walks in the park on a beautiful frosty morning — these are meticulously planned by a gingerbreader.”

So far, so festive. But there is a downside; for the gingerbreader, it’s not just about making the most of the Christmas season. It’s also about bailing on their winter paramour pretty much as soon as the presents are open on Christmas Day, leaving, as Wilson puts it, nothing but metaphorical “trail of crumbs in their path as they move on without warning.”

Ouch. 

If you’re looking to cuff someone for longer than just the season, Tinder’s global relationships insight expert Paul C Brunson has some advice.

Be true to what you really want

“We’re all busy in the end-of-year rush,” Brunson says, “but cuffing season is a good time to reflect on your dating journey so far and consider what it is you’re potentially looking for in a partner in 2024. If what you are looking for is a long-term relationship, own it. Don’t be afraid to tell potential matches what you want. Be authentic to yourself; honesty really is the best policy.”

Activity dates help form strong connections

Brunson says: “Just because it’s cold and dark, it doesn’t mean you can’t go out and do something fun with a potential match. In fact, Tinder’s latest research revealed 71% of singles say they prefer an activity-based date, and 97% say they believe regular IRL date nights are important. So whether it’s a long winter’s walk with a hot chocolate, a session on the ice rink or a cooking lesson to brush up on your culinary skills, go on the date with your new flame and make memories that could be the foundation of a long-term connection.”

Love yourself first

“Cuffing season can be a challenging time for many when you see your friends doing romantic activities with their significant others,” Brunson says. “But my biggest piece of advice would be not to rush just because everyone else is seemingly finding success in love. Everyone is on their own dating journey, so take that pressure off and do what feels right for you, when it feels right for you – and you may just find your long-term match is closer than you think.”

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